No worries. As I said, I've a very open view of people. You judge them as individuals not as a group. Hell, I remember my Grandmother wanting to meet my girlfriend once(mind you she was japanese) and me thinking...riiiiiiiiiiight, I forsee trouble on the horison. When I brought her over to meet Grandma I was thinking, righto! here it comes! but to my surprise my Grandma loved her...Originally Posted by KevinF
I deal with Japanese clients and some of them inforce the stereotype that people have of them(eg. cruel to women, brutal etc..stereotypes often pick the worst traits we have). I've been to Japanese clubs here in Malaysia entertaining them and watching one guy slap a hostess after a few drinks because her class was higher than his when we went 'cheers'. He later handed her quite a bit of cash and said no more of it. My Auntie sells golf club memberships. Part of her job entails entertaining clients. Particularly, a very large electronic corporation, whose members on the first night meeting her groped her bum and were quite offended when she slapped the offender. Their tune changed when she was seen with their MD the next day having lunch...no more cheekiness after that.
I've also met many Japanese I call friend. Whom I have shared the bond of brotherhood with the passions we share in common..well, surfing and kendo...and drinking and admiring the female form(but we aren't allowed to talk about that..*ahem*). I mean these are good friends you know that will be there for you when you need help the most. When I was beaten and robbed last year,this friend was one of the few good mates who immediately asked if I wanted a place to stay to get away and recuperate.
It goes to show good or bad exists in every race. It exists in every man and woman. Sometimes there is more bad within us...and we hope to god that those with good can pull us back to the fold.
btw, Call me Meng...Khaw is my surname...tho' I'd like to be a Lee if Robert E. was my Great-grandfatherHoorah! For the bonny blue flag that bears a single star!


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Hoorah! For the bonny blue flag that bears a single star!



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